You’ve taken ownership of your sexuality, which gives you the power that most men can’t handle. To deal with it, they make themselves see you as someone with no control — someone who will have sex with any man who offers. The reality is you have the ability to choose your partners on your terms, not to fill some desperate quota. You aren’t “easy," like they want you to be. You are extremely challenging because you don’t need them. You can choose from people who get your attention in ways you find attractive.

Which, in my opinion, is a positive — challenging people are always more interesting than the ones who are easy to handle.